# Why People Tear You Down Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/quest-for-success-7403148/why-people-tear-you-down Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/quest-for-success-7403148/why-people-tear-you-down.md Podcast: [Quest for Success](https://stenobird.com/podcast/quest-for-success-7403148) Published: 2026-05-25T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://quest-success.com/ Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.libsyn.com/secure/91038b65-2547-46ea-8dce-d6b237852bad/177_negative_comments.mp3?dest-id=4368138 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/quest-for-success-7403148/episodes/why-people-tear-you-down Duration seconds: 1927 ## Resource Negative comments can hit harder than we want to admit—online, at work, in families, at church, and even when we are trying to improve ourselves. In this episode of Quest for Success , Dr. Jerry Cunningham breaks down why criticism gets under our skin, what your brain and body are really doing when someone takes a verbal swing at you, and how to stop giving random critics control over your peace. You'll learn how negativity bias works, why some people tear down others who are trying to grow, and how to sort helpful feedback from plain old emotional garbage. We'll also apply this to the five pillars of success—mentally, morally, physically, spiritually, and financially—so you can keep building your life even when the comment section gets ugly. Visit: www.Quest-Success.com Suggested Reading Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck John Tierney and Roy F. Baumeister, The Power of Bad Proverbs 15:1 Brené Brown, Daring Greatly Hashtags #QuestForSuccess #DrJerryCunningham #MeanGirls #ReginaGeorge #SelenaGomez #TaylorSwift #MarkManson #TheSubtleArtOfNotGivingAFck Check out the sponsor of this episode: Go to Hostinger.com/QUEST20 and use code QUEST20 for 20% off. You'll be glad you did. 20% off Code: QUEST20 ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/quest-for-success-7403148/episodes/why-people-tear-you-down/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/quest-for-success-7403148/why-people-tear-you-down.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.