# #6 Time management struggles and the guilt of practicing English with friends Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/queers-with-accents-7747041/6-time-management-struggles-and-the-guilt-of-practicing-english-with-friends Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/queers-with-accents-7747041/6-time-management-struggles-and-the-guilt-of-practicing-english-with-friends.md Podcast: [Queers with Accents](https://stenobird.com/podcast/queers-with-accents-7747041) Published: 2026-04-22T09:27:02+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queerswithaccents/episodes/6-Time-management-struggles-and-the-guilt-of-practicing-English-with-friends-e3kn3kf Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/113ab0284/podcast/play/121392207/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-5-12%2F426026657-44100-2-1277b7011a55c.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/queers-with-accents-7747041/episodes/6-time-management-struggles-and-the-guilt-of-practicing-english-with-friends Duration seconds: 2812 ## Resource Kinoko is one of my ESL students and the author of I Have Two Partners: Living the Polyamorous Life , a ground-breaking book in Japanese about polyamory, as well as the organizer of Poly Lounge , a series of events for polyamorous and questioning people and allies. We publish archived videos of our lessons as a podcast. Today, our conversation covered the following topics: * Forgetting appointments and daily tasks * The difficulty of multitasking and context-switching * Working on laptops in trains: what are they working on? * How clothing and hair color affect people’s perceptions, and the Japanese cultural pressure to be “transparent” and blend in * The dichotomy of renshu (practice) vs. honban (real performance) in language learning, and the guilt of feeling like you’re using friends as practice tools Tip: Turn on the automatic transcript feature if you’d like to read along. Connect with Kinoko-san * Kinoko-san’s X: https://x.com/kinoko1027 * Kinoko-san’s blog: https://ameblo.jp/kinoko1027ameba/ * Her book: https://amzn.asia/d/0gusbsvA * Her interview: https://news.yahoo.co.jp/articles/ad17531bef6f9307a429f45f450a9fb2817f8196 ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/queers-with-accents-7747041/episodes/6-time-management-struggles-and-the-guilt-of-practicing-english-with-friends/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/queers-with-accents-7747041/6-time-management-struggles-and-the-guilt-of-practicing-english-with-friends.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.