# Sexual Masochism, Schemas, and Bad Trauma Screeners Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/sexual-masochism-schemas-and-bad-trauma-screeners Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/sexual-masochism-schemas-and-bad-trauma-screeners.md Podcast: [Psychology In Seattle Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212) Published: 2026-05-08T11:00:03+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sexual-masochism-schemas-and-bad-trauma-screeners--71830303 Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pscrb.fm/rss/p/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/71830303/2026_05_08_sexual_masochism_schemas_and_bad_trauma_screeners_sp_2352.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/episodes/sexual-masochism-schemas-and-bad-trauma-screeners Duration seconds: 2886 ## Resource Dr Kirk Honda answers patron emails. May 8, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Attachment style & BDSM 23:54 Is it helpful to revisit old journals? 29:19 How can I not intellectualize my feelings? 34:20 Was this trauma screener harmful? Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact About Dr. Kirk: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/about-dr-kirk-honda Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Get stuff... Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ KIRKgram (like Cameo): https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/kirkgram The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ® Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being. Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/episodes/sexual-masochism-schemas-and-bad-trauma-screeners/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/sexual-masochism-schemas-and-bad-trauma-screeners.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.