# Making Amends, Incels, Telling Kids About Infidelity, and Other Topics Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/making-amends-incels-telling-kids-about-infidelity-and-other-topics Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/making-amends-incels-telling-kids-about-infidelity-and-other-topics.md Podcast: [Psychology In Seattle Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212) Published: 2026-07-13T11:00:04+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/making-amends-incels-telling-kids-about-infidelity-and-other-topics--72831130 Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/pscrb.fm/rss/p/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72831130/2026_07_13_making_amends_incels_telling_kids_about_infidelity_and_other_topics_sp_1553.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/episodes/making-amends-incels-telling-kids-about-infidelity-and-other-topics Duration seconds: 2898 ## Resource Are some people simply evil? Is "sorry" overused? Can an incel community ever be healthy? Dr. Kirk Honda explores those questions while also discussing family therapy education, addiction recovery, infidelity and children, Mobile Crisis Teams, and two troubling listener-submitted stories involving catfishing and youth mental health programming. July 13, 2026 This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month. 00:00 Dr. Kirk's syllabi 01:07 The significance of language & making amends 15:55 Do evil people exist? 20:11 Is someone permanently evil? 24:51 Is it possible for there to be a healthy incel group? 31:12 How much should I tell my kids about our divorce? 32:48 Why do people catfish? 43:49 Are there benefits to mobile crisis teams? Support us by... Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Contact us/more info... Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact About Dr. Kirk: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/about-dr-kirk-honda Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com Get stuff... Merch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/ KIRKgram (like Cameo): https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/kirkgram The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ® Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being. Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may gener… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/episodes/making-amends-incels-telling-kids-about-infidelity-and-other-topics/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychology-in-seattle-podcast-490212/making-amends-incels-telling-kids-about-infidelity-and-other-topics.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.