# Episode 633: Love cheats (the unfaithful spouse) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychacks-5277640/episode-633-love-cheats-the-unfaithful-spouse Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychacks-5277640/episode-633-love-cheats-the-unfaithful-spouse.md Podcast: [PsycHacks](https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychacks-5277640) Published: 2026-06-22T15:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://oriontaraban.podbean.com/e/episode-tbd-love-cheats/ Audio file: https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/2k2qsvywt5cbgp7c/Love_cheats_-_Audio_scrape867k5.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/psychacks-5277640/episodes/episode-633-love-cheats-the-unfaithful-spouse Duration seconds: 810 ## Resource Why do so many romances involve betrayal? In this episode, I explain why love cheats as a narrative device to measure the depth and intensity of the romantic connection. This trope dates back to the very first romance, The song of Tristan and Iseult, in which love and duty are set on a tragic collision course. The more a character sacrifices, the more “real” their love appears to the audience. This is why this genre inadvertently glorifies the unfaithful spouse. Join my community: https://the-captains-quarters.mn.co Buy my book, ”The Value of Others” Ebook: https://amzn.to/460uGrA Audiobook: https://amzn.to/3YfFwbx Paperback: https://amzn.to/3xQuIFK Buy my book, ”Starry Night” Ebook: https://amzn.to/4qJrh9U Audiobook: https://amzn.to/3LuUJRS Paperback: https://amzn.to/4sGcqOY Book a paid consultation: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Subscribe to my newsletter: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com Social Media TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@oriontaraban Facebook: https://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: https://twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion’s Theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrXBzQ2HDEQ Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world’s only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code ”PSYCH” for 10% off all membership plans: https://stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: https://stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: https://www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack’s member community: https://www.y… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/psychacks-5277640/episodes/episode-633-love-cheats-the-unfaithful-spouse/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychacks-5277640/episode-633-love-cheats-the-unfaithful-spouse.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.