# Episode 627: Just be yourself (the best and worst advice)

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Podcast: [PsycHacks](https://stenobird.com/podcast/psychacks-5277640)
Published: 2026-06-01T15:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://oriontaraban.podbean.com/e/episode-tbd-just-be-yourself/
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## Resource

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