# Relational Identity Integration Part 2: How Identity Fragments: Attachment, Shame, and Survival Strategies Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/project-i-am-7078258/relational-identity-integration-part-2-how-identity-fragments-attachment-shame-and-survival-strategies Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/project-i-am-7078258/relational-identity-integration-part-2-how-identity-fragments-attachment-shame-and-survival-strategies.md Podcast: [Project I Am](https://stenobird.com/podcast/project-i-am-7078258) Published: 2026-03-05T14:53:29+00:00 Episode link: https://rss.com/podcasts/project-i-am-with-dr-david-j-schlosz/2600973 Audio file: https://content.rss.com/episodes/297962/2600973/project-i-am-with-dr-david-j-schlosz/2026_03_04_17_48_02_254e8bb3-4492-44a5-899b-25e187e51f97.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/project-i-am-7078258/episodes/relational-identity-integration-part-2-how-identity-fragments-attachment-shame-and-survival-strategies Duration seconds: 1096 ## Resource How does identity become divided in the first place? Building on Episode 1, Dr. David Schlosz explores the developmental origins of fragmentation. Through attachment theory, the identity-based trauma lens of Laurence Heller’s NARM, and contemporary neuroscience, he examines how survival strategies become personality. This episode unpacks how shame silences parts of the self, how nervous system states shape identity expression, and how early relational environments organize internal experience. Fragmentation is not random. It is structured adaptation. Understanding that structure is the first step toward integration. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/project-i-am-7078258/episodes/relational-identity-integration-part-2-how-identity-fragments-attachment-shame-and-survival-strategies/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/project-i-am-7078258/relational-identity-integration-part-2-how-identity-fragments-attachment-shame-and-survival-strategies.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.