# The Curiosity Gap: Three Words That Change Every Disagreement to the Best Outcome Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/productivity-6443634/the-curiosity-gap-three-words-that-change-every-disagreement-to-the-best-outcome Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/productivity-6443634/the-curiosity-gap-three-words-that-change-every-disagreement-to-the-best-outcome.md Podcast: [PRODUCTIVITY](https://stenobird.com/podcast/productivity-6443634) Published: 2026-05-19T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2154246/episodes/19200827-the-curiosity-gap-three-words-that-change-every-disagreement-to-the-best-outcome.mp3 Audio file: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2154246/episodes/19200827-the-curiosity-gap-three-words-that-change-every-disagreement-to-the-best-outcome.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/productivity-6443634/episodes/the-curiosity-gap-three-words-that-change-every-disagreement-to-the-best-outcome Duration seconds: 243 ## Resource The curiosity gap , what curiosity gap is, why saying three simple words will give you an advantage in every disagreement you encounter, and the 3 protocols to use the curiosity gap so arguments you find yourself in don’t escalate to the land of no resolution is possible. STUDY CITATIONS Kashdan, T. B., DeWall, C. N., Pond, R. S., Silvia, P. J., Lambert, N. M., Fincham, F. D., Savostyanova, A. A., & Keller, P. S. (2013). Curiosity protects against interpersonal aggression: Cross-sectional... ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/productivity-6443634/episodes/the-curiosity-gap-three-words-that-change-every-disagreement-to-the-best-outcome/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/productivity-6443634/the-curiosity-gap-three-words-that-change-every-disagreement-to-the-best-outcome.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.