# From War Zone to Rom Com: Divorce, Midlife Love, Menopause & Life-Affirming Friendship with Deborah Copaken

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Podcast: [Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World](https://stenobird.com/podcast/private-parts-unknown-sex-love-around-the-world-220056)
Published: 2026-02-04T13:30:00+00:00
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