# 068: How to ask for what you deserve in your dating life and your career with Torah Cents Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/pretty-rich-teacher-7148684/068-how-to-ask-for-what-you-deserve-in-your-dating-life-and-your-career-with-torah-cents Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/pretty-rich-teacher-7148684/068-how-to-ask-for-what-you-deserve-in-your-dating-life-and-your-career-with-torah-cents.md Podcast: [Pretty Rich Teacher](https://stenobird.com/podcast/pretty-rich-teacher-7148684) Published: 2026-02-13T05:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/HY1v8kYYt4/b9a8610e-99c2-476e-aa42-9a29636d17c5.mp3 Audio file: https://podcasts.helloaudio.fm/download/HY1v8kYYt4/b9a8610e-99c2-476e-aa42-9a29636d17c5.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/pretty-rich-teacher-7148684/episodes/068-how-to-ask-for-what-you-deserve-in-your-dating-life-and-your-career-with-torah-cents Duration seconds: 4736 ## Resource If you're a teacher who keeps over-giving in your career and your relationships and wondering why you still feel unseen, this episode is for you. In this conversation, I sit down with dating coach Torah Cents to unpack the quiet ways teachers settle. At work. In dating. In how we advocate for ourselves. We talk about burnout, good girl conditioning, and why so many teachers struggle to ask for more even when they have earned it. This episode is not about dating tips or career hacks. It is about self-trust, preparation, and building the courage to ask for what you actually want instead of accepting what shows up. When you listen to this episode, you’ll walk away with: A clearer understanding of how your dating patterns and career patterns mirror each other Permission to stop settling just because something feels familiar or safe A new way to think about preparation instead of perfection Language to ask for more without guilt or over-explaining A reminder that discomfort is not a red flag. It is often the doorway Validation that wanting more does not make you ungrateful or unrealistic You are allowed to want a career and relationships that meet you where you are now. This episode will help you start acting like it. Are you a burnt out educator looking to leave the classroom but don't know where to start? Click here to enroll in my DIY Exit Plan Course. Are you a burnt out women in education r eady for 1:1 mentorship, a custom 100K Career Plan + an additional stream of income? click here book a free 1:1 sales call to learn how to use your teaching experience to make 100k and beyond! On our call will personally map out how to make your 6K back in less than six months! Make sure to follow @prettyrichteacher on IG +TikTok and Linkedin (I go live weekly on Tuesdays!) + Youtub… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/pretty-rich-teacher-7148684/episodes/068-how-to-ask-for-what-you-deserve-in-your-dating-life-and-your-career-with-torah-cents/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/pretty-rich-teacher-7148684/068-how-to-ask-for-what-you-deserve-in-your-dating-life-and-your-career-with-torah-cents.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.