# #46: Calling in "The One": How to Become and Attract a Soul-Aligned Partner Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/practicing-love-have-the-best-love-and-sex-of-your-life-after-40-7053593/46-calling-in-the-one-how-to-become-and-attract-a-soul-aligned-partner Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/practicing-love-have-the-best-love-and-sex-of-your-life-after-40-7053593/46-calling-in-the-one-how-to-become-and-attract-a-soul-aligned-partner.md Podcast: [Practicing Love: Have the Best Love and Sex of Your Life After 40](https://stenobird.com/podcast/practicing-love-have-the-best-love-and-sex-of-your-life-after-40-7053593) Published: 2026-03-05T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://55a15c30-fab8-4111-89c4-b7c13a31ff7f.libsyn.com/46-calling-in-the-one-how-to-become-and-attract-a-soul-aligned-partner Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/55a15c30-fab8-4111-89c4-b7c13a31ff7f/46.mp3?dest-id=4744482 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/practicing-love-have-the-best-love-and-sex-of-your-life-after-40-7053593/episodes/46-calling-in-the-one-how-to-become-and-attract-a-soul-aligned-partner Duration seconds: 2223 ## Resource What if calling in "the one" who is a soul-aligned partner isn't about doing more, but about coming home to who you truly are? In this episode, Shana James sits down with Self-Love & Relationship Coach Risa Gaull , who reminds us of a powerful truth: you are the love you seek. If you've read Calling in "The One" by Kathryn Woodward Thomas and wondered how to truly become and attract a soul-aligned partner, this episode is for you. Risa Gaull, who is a certified coach for Kathryn's program, joins me to explore how self-love, healing your wounds, and shifting your identity, help you call in conscious, commitment-ready love. We explore what it actually takes to call in a soul-aligned partner, not through manifestation tricks or self-improvement, but through deep self-alignment, emotional responsibility, and healing the wounded parts of ourselves that learned love had to be earned. Risa shares how to recognize when you're relating from your wounded self versus your true self, including the subtle body, emotional, and thought-based signals that reveal whether you're in alignment or operating from old survival stories. She also offers compassionate practices for reconnecting with your inner truth, without trying to fix or bypass your pain. This conversation is an invitation to stop outsourcing your well-being, stop making partners your source, and start relating from wholeness β€” where real intimacy and soul-aligned love can grow. In this episode, you'll learn: Why self-alignment is the foundation of soul-aligned partnership The three signs you're relating from your wounded self (and how to come back) How to meet anxious or insecure parts with compassion instead of judgment Why your partner is not your source of validation, and how that creates healthier relationships What ch… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/practicing-love-have-the-best-love-and-sex-of-your-life-after-40-7053593/episodes/46-calling-in-the-one-how-to-become-and-attract-a-soul-aligned-partner/transcription-requests` β€” Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/practicing-love-have-the-best-love-and-sex-of-your-life-after-40-7053593/46-calling-in-the-one-how-to-become-and-attract-a-soul-aligned-partner.md` β€” Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.