# Why Survivors Must Be Heard to Heal with Dr. Judith Lewis Herman

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Podcast: [Perfect Prey: A Coercive Control Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/perfect-prey-a-coercive-control-podcast-6610448)
Published: 2026-05-08T15:45:00+00:00
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## Resource

In this episode of Perfect Prey , I’m honored to be joined by Judith Herman , one of the world’s foremost pioneers in trauma research and recovery. Dr. Herman is the author of the groundbreaking books Father-Daughter Incest , Trauma and Recovery , and Truth and Repair —works that fundamentally changed how we understand trauma, complex trauma, institutional betrayal, and survivor healing. Together, we discuss the origins of trauma theory, the women’s movement that brought survivor voices into public consciousness, the devastating lifelong impact of childhood abuse and coercive control, and why children living in unsafe family systems are so deeply affected—even when the abuse is not overtly physical. We also explore the ACEs study, attachment, institutional failures, protective parenting, intergenerational trauma, and the critical role of safe relationships in healing. This is an essential conversation for survivors, clinicians, advocates, educators, attorneys, judges, and anyone seeking a deeper understanding of trauma and recovery. What we cover The origins of trauma and complex trauma theory How the women’s movement changed the understanding of abuse Dr. Herman’s groundbreaking work on incest and child sexual abuse The lifelong mental and physical health impacts of childhood trauma The ACEs study and adverse childhood experiences Coercive control, family violence, and child development Isolation as a tactic of abuse and coercive control Why children exposed to family violence are profoundly harmed Protective factors that help children heal from trauma Attachment, belonging, and the importance of safe relationships Institutional betrayal and why survivors must be heard Protective parenting and rebuilding connection with children Why listen If you are a survivor, prote…

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