# Episode 5: “Soft Life vs Provider Mode: Men in a Failing Economy”

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Podcast: [Overthinkers Anonymous by Zikoko](https://stenobird.com/podcast/overthinkers-anonymous-by-zikoko-7864722)
Published: 2026-06-13T06:00:00+00:00
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Duration seconds: 5004

## Resource

In this episode, we talk about the tug‑of‑war between being a “soft life” man and a traditional provider in a harsh Nigerian economy. We discuss group trips, Dutch dates, bride price with real salary numbers, black tax, and mental health. It’s a money episode disguised as vibes. Join the Overthinkers community: Follow us on Instagram @theoverthinkershq

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