# The Fear of Regret No One Talks About After Plastic Surgery Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/our-sleeved-life-podcast-122251/the-fear-of-regret-no-one-talks-about-after-plastic-surgery Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/our-sleeved-life-podcast-122251/the-fear-of-regret-no-one-talks-about-after-plastic-surgery.md Podcast: [Our Sleeved Life Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/our-sleeved-life-podcast-122251) Published: 2026-02-05T00:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.oursleevedlifepodcast.com/ Audio file: https://injector.simplecastaudio.com/91b88356-749b-45a3-a8a8-621754d7aa9f/episodes/ad2ce14d-6ec3-44f4-838f-5090fc6874b4/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=91b88356-749b-45a3-a8a8-621754d7aa9f&awEpisodeId=ad2ce14d-6ec3-44f4-838f-5090fc6874b4&feed=6Lo75ekJ Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/our-sleeved-life-podcast-122251/episodes/the-fear-of-regret-no-one-talks-about-after-plastic-surgery Duration seconds: 3158 ## Resource Epi 12 Welcome back to The Cutting Edge Podcast with host Mel featuring Dr. Omar E. Beidas, MD, FACS (plastic surgeon) and Ashlyn Douglass Barnes, LCSW (therapist and post weight loss patient). In this episode of our Fear Series, we tackle one of the biggest hurdles before body contouring and plastic surgery after major weight loss: the fear of the unknown and the fear of regret. You’ll hear what regret actually looks like in real life (hint: it’s far less common than the fear of it), how unrealistic expectations can fuel anxiety, why “post op blues” can happen even when everything is going well, and what you can do before surgery to feel grounded, prepared, and confident. We also talk about how people treat you differently in a smaller body, how confidence can impact relationships, and why choosing the right procedure (and the right provider) matters if you want results you won’t second guess. If you’re researching tummy tuck, skin removal surgery, body contouring after weight loss, 360 lipo, breast lift or breast augmentation, or you’re navigating the mental side of transformation, this one is for you. Watch nextIf you’re new here, start the Fear Series from the beginning and then work your way through the topics in order for the full picture. What you’ll learn in this episode • Why fear of regret is more common than actual regret• The top reasons people feel regret after plastic surgery (and how to avoid them)• How swelling, pain, recovery fatigue, and needing help can trigger “blues”• How to set realistic expectations for healing and final results• Why non invasive “skin tightening” options usually do not solve loose skin after major weight loss• How weight stability affects long term results• How body changes can shift attention, confidence, and relationships• How… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/our-sleeved-life-podcast-122251/episodes/the-fear-of-regret-no-one-talks-about-after-plastic-surgery/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/our-sleeved-life-podcast-122251/the-fear-of-regret-no-one-talks-about-after-plastic-surgery.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.