# 699 - Escaping Quicksand: Chapter 1 My Quicksand Story Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/organize-365-podcast-172008/699-escaping-quicksand-chapter-1-my-quicksand-story Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/organize-365-podcast-172008/699-escaping-quicksand-chapter-1-my-quicksand-story.md Podcast: [Organize 365 Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/organize-365-podcast-172008) Published: 2026-02-27T11:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://organize365.libsyn.com/699-escaping-quicksand-chapter-1-my-quicksand-story Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/organize365/699_-_Escaping_Quicksand-_Chapter_1_My_Quicksand_Story.mp3?dest-id=217222 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/organize-365-podcast-172008/episodes/699-escaping-quicksand-chapter-1-my-quicksand-story Duration seconds: 1786 ## Resource Here it is, the first chapter of my latest book Escaping Quicksand . I thought it was necessary for the reader to understand that I too have found myself in quicksand and realized there was no rock bottom to hit. Through escaping "the quicksand", I learned the lesson of the unpopular truth that you have to make yourself a priority. How Did I Get In the Pit of Despair? I've always been a planner and organized. But the systems I brought into adulthood slowly started to break as the complexity of life increased by adding a spouse, a house, and children. I suppose it was around the time of the 2008 recession that life gave the final push into the pit of despair. My father had fallen which led to a decline in his health and ultimately his passing. My sister and I shared roles to care for him and then settle his estate but it was a lot financially, logistically, and emotionally. On top of that I had become a very negative person that no one really wanted to be around. The more I fought to not sink lower in the quicksand of the pit of despair, the deeper I fell. Grandma's Car As I was getting ready to turn 40 I realized that no one was coming to save me. If it was to be it was up to me! I remembered all the inspirational and motivational speakers I'd heard in the back seat of my grandma's car and when I'd been in tow with my mother at events. Some of their one liners started popping into my head. It was at that point that I realized I needed to support myself in the same way I support my family members in their daily lives, with their diet, physical fitness, and education! It was up to me to fix my broken life. We are so busy taking care of everyone else that we get lost in the mix and never get put on the list. The first thing I did was organize my physical spaces and that's… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/organize-365-podcast-172008/episodes/699-escaping-quicksand-chapter-1-my-quicksand-story/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/organize-365-podcast-172008/699-escaping-quicksand-chapter-1-my-quicksand-story.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.