# 3027: 3 Difficult Things About Being a Single Introvert Looking for Love by Cati Vanden Breul of Introvert Dear on Dating As An Introvert Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/3027-3-difficult-things-about-being-a-single-introvert-looking-for-love-by-cati-vanden-breul-of-introvert-dear-on-dating-as-an-introvert Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/3027-3-difficult-things-about-being-a-single-introvert-looking-for-love-by-cati-vanden-breul-of-introvert-dear-on-dating-as-an-introvert.md Podcast: [Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting](https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569) Published: 2026-06-02T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/OLD6826840409.mp3 Audio file: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/OLD6826840409.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/episodes/3027-3-difficult-things-about-being-a-single-introvert-looking-for-love-by-cati-vanden-breul-of-introvert-dear-on-dating-as-an-introvert Duration seconds: 587 ## Resource Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3027: Cati Vanden Breul captures the emotional tug-of-war between craving deep connection and feeling safest in solitude. With honesty and vulnerability, she explores the unique challenges introverts face in modern dating, from avoiding swipe culture to struggling with casual relationships, while offering reassurance to anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed by the search for meaningful love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://introvertdear.com/news/single-introvert-love-difficult-things/ Quotes to ponder: “Dating can be a dance of give and take, and there’s no way around it: You have to get out of your comfort zone.” “Knowing what you want is one thing, but opening yourself up to it presents a whole different challenge.” “I know online dating is supposed to be fun and not something that needs to be taken so seriously. But, as it’s become so normalized, with the lure of unlimited options just a swipe away, it’s hard to imagine finding what I’m looking for.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/episodes/3027-3-difficult-things-about-being-a-single-introvert-looking-for-love-by-cati-vanden-breul-of-introvert-dear-on-dating-as-an-introvert/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/3027-3-difficult-things-about-being-a-single-introvert-looking-for-love-by-cati-vanden-breul-of-introvert-dear-on-dating-as-an-introvert.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.