# 3025: You Can Still Trust Even If You’ve Been Deceived by Phil Cheney with Tiny Buddha on Rebuilding Trust Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/3025-you-can-still-trust-even-if-you-ve-been-deceived-by-phil-cheney-with-tiny-buddha-on-rebuilding-trust Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/3025-you-can-still-trust-even-if-you-ve-been-deceived-by-phil-cheney-with-tiny-buddha-on-rebuilding-trust.md Podcast: [Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting](https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569) Published: 2026-05-31T07:05:00+00:00 Episode link: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/OLD3063724808.mp3 Audio file: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/OLD3063724808.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/episodes/3025-you-can-still-trust-even-if-you-ve-been-deceived-by-phil-cheney-with-tiny-buddha-on-rebuilding-trust Duration seconds: 557 ## Resource Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3025: Phil Cheney reflects on a painful experience of being underpaid after completing a renovation job and explains why one person’s dishonesty doesn’t have to destroy your faith in others. Through injury, disappointment, and self-reflection, he shares how trust is ultimately a personal choice rooted in self-awareness, boundaries, and resilience rather than the behavior of others. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/you-can-still-trust-even-if-youve-been-deceived/ Quotes to ponder: “You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don’t trust enough.” “Don’t assume you can’t trust anyone because one person was untrustworthy. You can’t control what everyone else does, and some people may deceive you, but you can control what you do, who you choose to trust, and what you learn from each experience.” “You see, my behavior in assessing how much to trust is within my control, while how the other person behaves is outside my control.” Episode references: Frank Crane: https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Frank_Crane Johann Wolfgang von Goethe: https://www.britannica.com/biography/Johann-Wolfgang-von-Goethe Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/episodes/3025-you-can-still-trust-even-if-you-ve-been-deceived-by-phil-cheney-with-tiny-buddha-on-rebuilding-trust/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/3025-you-can-still-trust-even-if-you-ve-been-deceived-by-phil-cheney-with-tiny-buddha-on-rebuilding-trust.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.