# 3009: The Amazing Value of Self-Compassion and How to Practice It by Ellen Burgan of If It Brings You Joy on Self Kindness Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/3009-the-amazing-value-of-self-compassion-and-how-to-practice-it-by-ellen-burgan-of-if-it-brings-you-joy-on-self-kindness Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/3009-the-amazing-value-of-self-compassion-and-how-to-practice-it-by-ellen-burgan-of-if-it-brings-you-joy-on-self-kindness.md Podcast: [Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting](https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569) Published: 2026-05-17T07:05:00+00:00 Episode link: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/OLD1857066081.mp3?updated=1778265505 Audio file: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/OLD1857066081.mp3?updated=1778265505 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/episodes/3009-the-amazing-value-of-self-compassion-and-how-to-practice-it-by-ellen-burgan-of-if-it-brings-you-joy-on-self-kindness Duration seconds: 656 ## Resource Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3009: Ellen Burgan explores how self-compassion can transform the way you respond to mistakes, stress, and self-doubt. By practicing gratitude, forgiveness, and self-love, you can quiet negative self-talk, build emotional resilience, and create a healthier, more supportive relationship with yourself. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ifitbringsyoujoy.com/the-amazing-value-of-self-compassion/ Quotes to ponder: “Self-love means having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness. Self-love means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others. Self-love means not settling for less than you deserve.” “Being compassionate with yourself is one of the best things you can do to stop that self-destructive negative self-talk.” “It’s OK to make mistakes. You’re not the only person who has struggled with any given experience, and nobody is perfect.” Episode references: Merriam-Webster Dictionary: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/compassion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/episodes/3009-the-amazing-value-of-self-compassion-and-how-to-practice-it-by-ellen-burgan-of-if-it-brings-you-joy-on-self-kindness/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/optimal-relationships-daily-dating-marriage-and-parenting-1054569/3009-the-amazing-value-of-self-compassion-and-how-to-practice-it-by-ellen-burgan-of-if-it-brings-you-joy-on-self-kindness.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.