# How to Resolve Conflicts in Relationships: A Conversation with Esther Perel Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/open-to-debate-610487/how-to-resolve-conflicts-in-relationships-a-conversation-with-esther-perel Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/open-to-debate-610487/how-to-resolve-conflicts-in-relationships-a-conversation-with-esther-perel.md Podcast: [Open to Debate](https://stenobird.com/podcast/open-to-debate-610487) Published: 2025-12-19T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/traffic.megaphone.fm/ADL4859264538.mp3?updated=1766098263 Audio file: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/traffic.megaphone.fm/ADL4859264538.mp3?updated=1766098263 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/open-to-debate-610487/episodes/how-to-resolve-conflicts-in-relationships-a-conversation-with-esther-perel Duration seconds: 3195 ## Resource Couples have arguments over many topics. However, it’s through resolving conflict that both people in the relationship feel heard and seen. Psychotherapist, relationship expert, and New York Times-bestselling author Esther Perel says conflict when navigated skillfully can lead to growth, resilience, and a stronger bond. In this conversation with John Donvan, Perel shares her experience working with different relationship types, strategies for transforming conflict into a constructive dialogue, and the importance of validating both sides’ perspectives. Our guest: Esther Perel, Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Emmy award-winning journalist John Donvan moderates Visit OpentoDebate.org to watch more insightful debates. Subscribe to our newsletter to stay informed on our curated weekly debates, dynamic live events, and educational initiatives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/open-to-debate-610487/episodes/how-to-resolve-conflicts-in-relationships-a-conversation-with-esther-perel/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/open-to-debate-610487/how-to-resolve-conflicts-in-relationships-a-conversation-with-esther-perel.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.