# How New Managers Can Establish Their Authority Without Being Bossy

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Podcast: [New Manager Conversations with Fexingo: First 90 Days, Managing Former Peers, and Leadership Basics](https://stenobird.com/podcast/new-manager-conversations-with-fexingo-first-90-days-managing-former-peers-and-leadership-basics-7871636)
Published: 2026-07-15T17:08:49+00:00
Episode link: https://audio.fexingo.com/business/new-manager-conversations/episode-0116.mp3
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## Resource

Lucas and Luna explore a subtle but critical skill for new managers: establishing authority without coming across as bossy or authoritarian. They dig into the research on 'soft dominance' from organizational psychologist Dr. Lindsey Cameron at Penn's Wharton School, who studied 150 new managers over two years. Key finding: the managers who earned the most respect from their teams used a mix of clear framing, direct language, and calm confidence—not loudness or orders. Lucas and Luna walk through three concrete techniques: naming the 'why' before the 'what', using 'I expect' instead of 'I need', and the power of a 10-second pause before responding. They also discuss a common pitfall: over-explaining. The episode is full of specific phrases and non-verbal cues listeners can use in their next team meeting. #NewManager #Leadership #Authority #SoftDominance #DrLindseyCameron #Wharton #CommunicationSkills #TeamManagement #First90Days #ManagingFormerPeers #Careers #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #LeadershipBasics #WorkplaceDynamics #Assertiveness #Coaching #ProfessionalDevelopment Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo

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