# Stop Waiting for Your Mom to Change [Ep. 54]

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Podcast: [Mother Daughter Relationship Show](https://stenobird.com/podcast/mother-daughter-relationship-show-6993508)
Published: 2026-02-06T16:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://brittneymscott.com/podcast
Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/adf332b7-1344-4416-94a5-5d48e2a22c62.mp3
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Duration seconds: 992

## Resource

Understanding the Mother Wound and How to Heal Without Your Mom In this episode, I break down what a mother wound actually is and provide a roadmap for healing without waiting for your mom to change, apologize, or acknowledge what happened. From understanding that mother wounds stem from attachment trauma and missing emotional support to recognizing that waiting for her to change is keeping you stuck, I guide you through concrete steps for reclaiming your healing journey. You'll learn why comparing your trauma to others' is holding you back, how to reconnect with your inner child at specific ages, and the importance of defining what you actually need across different areas of your life. I also address the three lanes of healing: reconnecting with your mom, going no contact, or staying in relationship with strong boundaries, and how to choose the right path for you. With this episode you'll be able to: Stop comparing your pain to others' and validate your own experience Write a letter to your younger self at a specific age to begin inner child healing Identify what you need in friendships, romantic relationships, career, and daily life Understand why "doing the opposite" of your mom isn't enough for intentional parenting Create and enforce healthy boundaries that allow for genuine connection Choose between three healing lanes based on your specific situation and needs Break generational patterns by reclaiming your authentic self and developing self-trust Don't forget to subscribe to the YouTube channel if you want to see more content and watch video versions of the podcast episodes! Connect with Brittney: Instagram: @theBrittneyScott Website: www.brittneymscott.com Consultation to work with Brittney Free Resources Mentioned resources: Break the Cycle workbook for mappin…

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