# Are You Quiet Quitting Your Relationship? With Couples Therapist Colette Jane Fehr

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Podcast: [Mostly Dating](https://stenobird.com/podcast/mostly-dating-129799)
Published: 2026-03-17T16:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

Welcome back! Today we're joined by Colette Jane Fehr, a licensed couples therapist, nationally recognized relationship expert, and author of the #1 Amazon bestseller ⁠The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure, Lasting Love⁠ . We chat about: ​How Colette "quiet quit" her marriage ​Dating after divorce ​Dating as a single parent ​Conversations that could save your relationship ​Why having no conflict is actually a red flag ​How to bring up things that bother you in a relationship ​Tools for healthier communication & more Find Colette on Instagram ⁠@colettejanefehr⁠ , order her book ⁠here⁠ , or check out her Substack, ⁠Secrets from a Therapist⁠ . Read my most recent Substacks: ⁠⁠⁠Signs You're Ready To Date Again After A Breakup⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Exactly What I Did To Manifest My Dream Relationship At 33⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Conversations Every Couple Should Have In The First Year Of Dating⁠⁠⁠ As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com.

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