# Stop Entertaining the Wrong People: A Mindset Shift on Dating and Friendships You Need Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/morning-rae-2136145/stop-entertaining-the-wrong-people-a-mindset-shift-on-dating-and-friendships-you-need Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/morning-rae-2136145/stop-entertaining-the-wrong-people-a-mindset-shift-on-dating-and-friendships-you-need.md Podcast: [Morning Rae](https://stenobird.com/podcast/morning-rae-2136145) Published: 2025-10-06T04:00:57+00:00 Episode link: https://redcircle.com/shows/c59862b3-5762-49db-a916-b91bb1f72e05/episodes/5f56a442-8362-461e-a950-8c1c4cc7b293 Audio file: https://pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/1335/audio4.redcircle.com/episodes/5f56a442-8362-461e-a950-8c1c4cc7b293/stream.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/morning-rae-2136145/episodes/stop-entertaining-the-wrong-people-a-mindset-shift-on-dating-and-friendships-you-need Duration seconds: 1964 ## Resource #240. ✨ In your 20s, friendships and relationships can feel like a rollercoaster, but the truth is, so much of it comes down to your mindset . In this episode, Lan is diving into the shifts that will help you stop settling, set higher standards, and start attracting the right people into your life. From friendships that come in waves to dating patterns that keep repeating, she'll talk about how to set intentions, break cycles, and show up as the version of yourself that naturally attracts the love and connections you actually deserve. Whether you’re navigating hot-and-cold friends, breadcrumbing situationships, or just trying to figure out what kind of partner you want, this episode is your reminder to put yourself first, lead with intention, and build relationships that match your energy. 💌 Watch the podcast here . Want your question answered next Ask Lan? Submit here . ITEMS MENTIONED: Ultrahuman ring (applies 10% off) Runna App (use code ALLANA for your first 2 weeks free) Shop/My (skincare, makeup routine, hair products, etc) STAY UP TO DATE WITH LAN: http://instagram.com/allanablumberg http://tiktok.com/@allanablumberg http://pinterest.com/allanablumberg http://youtube.com/allanablumberg http://strava.com/athletes/allana_blumberg http://goodreads.com/user/show/153512974-allana-blumberg For business inquiries, only: allana@thescoutclub.com Our Sponsors: * This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Go to www.betterhelp.com to get started today! * This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Go to www.betterhelp.com to get started today. * This episode is brought to you by Tempo Meals. Get 60% off your first box at tempomeals.com/ALLANA * This episode is brought to you by Wayfair. Get all your patio essentials at www.wayfair.com Advertising Inquiries: https://red… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/morning-rae-2136145/episodes/stop-entertaining-the-wrong-people-a-mindset-shift-on-dating-and-friendships-you-need/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/morning-rae-2136145/stop-entertaining-the-wrong-people-a-mindset-shift-on-dating-and-friendships-you-need.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.