# ASK LAN: right person, wrong time, learning how to be happy single, & how to reset your confidence Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/morning-rae-2136145/ask-lan-right-person-wrong-time-learning-how-to-be-happy-single-how-to-reset-your-confidence Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/morning-rae-2136145/ask-lan-right-person-wrong-time-learning-how-to-be-happy-single-how-to-reset-your-confidence.md Podcast: [Morning Rae](https://stenobird.com/podcast/morning-rae-2136145) Published: 2025-10-28T04:00:09+00:00 Episode link: https://redcircle.com/shows/c59862b3-5762-49db-a916-b91bb1f72e05/episodes/7cb8d42b-d17f-4032-bef9-48bb15e33c6d Audio file: https://pscrb.fm/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/1335/audio4.redcircle.com/episodes/7cb8d42b-d17f-4032-bef9-48bb15e33c6d/stream.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/morning-rae-2136145/episodes/ask-lan-right-person-wrong-time-learning-how-to-be-happy-single-how-to-reset-your-confidence Duration seconds: 2214 ## Resource #242. In this week’s episode of Morning Rae , Lan is answering all your questions, and yes, we’re getting into it. From “does the right person, wrong time actually exist?” to how to be happy for your friends’ relationships without comparing your own, this episode is your cozy heart-to-heart for girl talk season. We’re also chatting about confidence resets, being okay with doing life solo, and how to handle it when your friend’s girlfriend… just isn’t the vibe. Plus, Lan's current favs: mock necks and funnel neck sweaters, loafers and boots over sneakers, The Last Mrs. Parrish , The Courage to Be Disliked , and all her cozy girl dinner inspo: sourdough toast with cottage cheese and hot honey, steak nights, and that iconic bocconcini + tomato salad. Listen if: 💌 You’re in your single girl era 💌 You’re trying to stop comparing your life to everyone else’s 💌 You’re ready to glow up your confidence from the inside out This episode is brought to you by Factor. Use code ALLANA here for up to $90 off your first four boxes and free shipping on your first order. ITEMS MENTIONED: Kindle paperwhite The Courage to Be Disliked The Last Mrs. Parrish For business inquiries, only: allana@thescoutclub.com Our Sponsors: * This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Go to www.betterhelp.com to get started today! * This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Go to www.betterhelp.com to get started today. * This episode is brought to you by Tempo Meals. Get 60% off your first box at tempomeals.com/ALLANA * This episode is brought to you by Wayfair. Get all your patio essentials at www.wayfair.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/morning-rae-2136145/episodes/ask-lan-right-person-wrong-time-learning-how-to-be-happy-single-how-to-reset-your-confidence/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/morning-rae-2136145/ask-lan-right-person-wrong-time-learning-how-to-be-happy-single-how-to-reset-your-confidence.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.