# Correcting Misgendering | Practical Allyship Guidance for Parents of LGBTQ Teens Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/more-human-more-kind-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens-955717/correcting-misgendering-practical-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/more-human-more-kind-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens-955717/correcting-misgendering-practical-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens.md Podcast: [More Human. More Kind. | Parenting LGBTQ Kids, Unlearning Fear, Becoming More Human](https://stenobird.com/podcast/more-human-more-kind-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens-955717) Published: 2026-05-05T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://more-human-more-kind.captivate.fm/episode/the-cost-of-staying-quiet-when-your-trans-child-is-misgendered Audio file: https://pscrb.fm/rss/p/episodes.captivate.fm/episode/5c8961b0-81fe-4838-85fd-667051e64d7d.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/more-human-more-kind-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens-955717/episodes/correcting-misgendering-practical-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens Duration seconds: 416 ## Resource Are you an overwhelmed mom of a gay, lesbian, transgender, or queer teen who's feeling lost trying to navigate the coming out process, and wants to let go of shame and embarrassment, as well as build a deeper connection of trust within yourself and your teen? Click here to learn how to work with me 1-1. What happens in the moment when someone misgenders your child and you don’t speak up? In this episode, Heather Hester explores one of the most common (and least talked about) experiences for parents of LGBTQ+ kids: the moment of hesitation. When a relative uses the wrong pronoun. When a teacher slips up. When you almost say something but don’t. If you’ve ever felt your breath catch, your mind race, or your confidence disappear in those moments, you are not alone. You’ll learn: Why silence in these moments lands louder than you think What your child may be reading in your hesitation How repeated inaction can quietly reshape trust and connection A powerful mindset shift that reframes advocacy as protection, not confrontation A simple, grounded way to begin speaking up with more clarity and calm This episode will help you move from fear and uncertainty to a deeper sense of confidence in how you show up for your child. Listen now and take one step closer to becoming the steady, safe advocate your child needs. Hi, I’m Heather Hester , and I’m so glad you’re here! Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Download my free guide to take you from Panic to Plan. Join a private community with other parents and allies just like you! Stay informed - receive my newsletter Invite me to speak at your workshop or event Read my book, Parenting with Pride . Share More Human. More Kind. Please subscribe, rate, and review ! Connect heather@heatherhester.net Buy Me A Coffee Watch on YouTube Listen… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/more-human-more-kind-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens-955717/episodes/correcting-misgendering-practical-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/more-human-more-kind-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens-955717/correcting-misgendering-practical-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.