# What Happens When an LGBTQ Child Gets No Support: Steph Vachon's Story of Survival and Reclamation

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Podcast: [More Human. More Kind. | Parenting LGBTQ Kids, Unlearning Fear, Becoming More Human](https://stenobird.com/podcast/more-human-more-kind-allyship-guidance-for-parents-of-lgbtq-teens-955717)
Published: 2026-05-26T09:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://more-human-more-kind.captivate.fm/episode/beyond-survival-queer-healing-fatherhood-and-reinvention
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Duration seconds: 2265

## Resource

What happens when someone spends decades surviving instead of truly living? In this deeply moving conversation, Heather sits down with queer figure skater, advocate, father, and podcast host Stef Vachon to talk about shame, bullying, identity, healing, and what it means to finally come home to yourself. Growing up in a small French Canadian town in the 1970s and 80s, Stef endured relentless homophobia, isolation, and abuse while pursuing competitive figure skating. By 17, after reaching Nationals in Canada, the weight of shame forced him to walk away from the sport he loved. But this episode is not about defeat. It’s about reclamation. Stef shares: How internalized shame shaped his identity and relationships The anxiety and breaking point that changed everything The therapist who helped save his life Why becoming a father transformed his healing journey The power of LGBTQ representation and community What it means to stop surviving and finally start living This conversation is for: LGBTQ adults still healing from shame or rejection Parents wanting to better support queer kids Anyone navigating reinvention, self-worth, or a second chance at life People learning that healing, joy, and authenticity are still possible, no matter how long it takes Stef’s story is a reminder that you are not broken, you are not alone, and it is never too late to reclaim yourself. If this episode moved you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs hope today. And for more conversations about belonging, healing, parenting, advocacy, boundaries, and becoming more human and more kind, join Heather on Substack and follow the podcast for new episodes every Tuesday and Friday. Connect with Stef! Podcast: Together Moving Forward Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toget…

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