# 🪞How Your Money Work is Boundary Work w/ Natalie Lue

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Podcast: [Money Healing Club Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/money-healing-club-podcast-7114739)
Published: 2026-05-01T17:58:33+00:00
Episode link: https://moneyhealingclub.podbean.com/e/%f0%9f%aahow-your-money-work-is-boundary-work-w-natalie-lue/
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## Resource

EPISODE SUMMARY Every time you've crossed your own budget, broken your spending plan, or said yes to something you couldn't afford, it might not have been about willpower at all. It might have been about boundaries. In this season two finale of the Money Healing Club podcast, Rachel welcomes Natalie Lue, writer behind Baggage Reclaim, host of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast, and author of The Joy of Saying No and her newest, How to Say No: The Scripts. Nat has spent years helping people rethink codependency, people-pleasing, and emotional unavailability. Together, they apply all of it to money: how our relationship with money can be similar to the relationship we have with our parents & how splitting the bill becomes a boundary minefield. "What you say yes to, you're saying no to something else. And vice versa." Nat Lue Key Takeaways: Codependency with money looks like trying to please it, fearing it, or feeling controlled by it. The healthier alternative is interdependence We often relate to money the way we were related to as kids: dismissive when things are bad, only courteous when things are good A no doesn't have to be Armageddon. Most of the time it's "no, not right now" or "no, not this way" A clear no often holds space for a yes ("this won't work, but this might"), which keeps connection intact Boundaries are about what you'll do, not what others must do. You take responsibility for your side of the street Asking "what's your budget?" can unlock more money and more clarity than naming a price first People over-personalize others' nos. Get curious instead of making it about you Speaking up about money benefits everyone. Your honesty often gives someone else permission to be honest too About Natalie Lue: Natalie is the writer behind Baggage Reclaim, host…

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