# We React to a Reddit AITA About Splitting Money With Your Partner (Ep 124) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/we-react-to-a-reddit-aita-about-splitting-money-with-your-partner-ep-124 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/we-react-to-a-reddit-aita-about-splitting-money-with-your-partner-ep-124.md Podcast: [Mind + Money: A Podcast All About Money and ADHD](https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957) Published: 2026-08-13T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sherry--val2/episodes/We-React-to-a-Reddit-AITA-About-Splitting-Money-With-Your-Partner-Ep-124-e3n30i8 Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/10381e940/podcast/play/123879432/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-7-6%2F429370606-44100-2-2ab000d62bf88.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/episodes/we-react-to-a-reddit-aita-about-splitting-money-with-your-partner-ep-124 Duration seconds: 1031 ## Resource Ever kept a secret tally of what your partner owes you? Or have your partner agree to something and then not hold up their end of the agreement? This week we're digging into a Reddit AITA post about a couple stuck in a slow-motion money standoff, and it's messier (and more relatable) than it sounds. The original poster has been quietly tracking IOUs for over a year: Venmo requests that go unanswered, dinners he always ends up covering, and a running total that's crept past a thousand dollars. He wants to know if keeping that list makes him the asshole. We dig into: - Why "not the asshole" doesn't mean the relationship is actually fine - The difference between tracking money and avoiding a real conversation - What a shared "fun account" could solve that a Venmo request never will - Why a cohabitation agreement is worth the awkward conversation, especially when only one of you owns the home This one's a good gut check for anyone who's ever let a money frustration fester instead of naming it out loud. Connect with us: Book a free call with Val (financial planner): https://calendly.com/valerie-stratford Book a free call with Sherry (financial coach): https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=17480698&appointmentType=25737393 Val's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/you.me.and.money Sherry's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/moneymindsetfc Podcast Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/mind.money.adhd.podcast Sherry's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moneymindsetcoaching ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/episodes/we-react-to-a-reddit-aita-about-splitting-money-with-your-partner-ep-124/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/we-react-to-a-reddit-aita-about-splitting-money-with-your-partner-ep-124.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.