# Money Red Flags to Watch for When You're Dating (Ep 123) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/money-red-flags-to-watch-for-when-you-re-dating-ep-123 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/money-red-flags-to-watch-for-when-you-re-dating-ep-123.md Podcast: [Mind + Money: A Podcast All About Money and ADHD](https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957) Published: 2026-07-30T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sherry--val2/episodes/Money-Red-Flags-to-Watch-for-When-Youre-Dating-Ep-123-e3mnq5a Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/10381e940/podcast/play/123512426/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-6-30%2F428875890-44100-2-5f531ea2ab34a.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/episodes/money-red-flags-to-watch-for-when-you-re-dating-ep-123 Duration seconds: 1817 ## Resource Dating someone new and things are going well? Before it gets too far, there's one conversation you don't want to keep putting off: money. In this episode, Sherry and Val talk about the financial red flags (and green flags) worth paying attention to when you're building a new relationship, whether you're a few dates in or already picturing a future together. They get into: - What actually counts as a financial deal breaker, and why you need to name yours before you're in too deep - How to bring up money without it turning into an interrogation - Why someone's money mindset can matter more than their credit card balance - What it means when debt shows up in the conversation, and how to talk about it without shame - How to build a shared money system that doesn't turn into an admin nightmare (especially with ADHD in the mix) This one's for anyone who's ever wondered how soon is too soon to talk about money with someone new. Spoiler: probably earlier than you think. Connect with us: Book a free call with Val (financial planner): https://calendly.com/valerie-stratford Book a free call with Sherry (financial coach): https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=17480698&appointmentType=25737393 Val's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/you.me.and.money Sherry's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/moneymindsetfc Podcast Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/mind.money.adhd.podcast Sherry's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moneymindsetcoaching ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/episodes/money-red-flags-to-watch-for-when-you-re-dating-ep-123/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/mind-money-a-podcast-all-about-money-and-adhd-6847957/money-red-flags-to-watch-for-when-you-re-dating-ep-123.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.