# The US is falling apart: Collective grief, privilege, and surviving the Trump regime Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/messy-liberation-feminist-conversations-about-politics-and-pop-culture-6952884/the-us-is-falling-apart-collective-grief-privilege-and-surviving-the-trump-regime Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/messy-liberation-feminist-conversations-about-politics-and-pop-culture-6952884/the-us-is-falling-apart-collective-grief-privilege-and-surviving-the-trump-regime.md Podcast: [Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop Culture](https://stenobird.com/podcast/messy-liberation-feminist-conversations-about-politics-and-pop-culture-6952884) Published: 2026-01-26T14:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://share.transistor.fm/s/2ed1a841 Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/2ed1a841/1e02b6b6.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/messy-liberation-feminist-conversations-about-politics-and-pop-culture-6952884/episodes/the-us-is-falling-apart-collective-grief-privilege-and-surviving-the-trump-regime Duration seconds: 3345 ## Resource Get "Liberate Your Business" by Becky Mollenkamp https://liberateyourbusiness.com/ NOTE: This episode was recorded before the murder of Alex Pretti in Minneapolis. Our hearts are with his family and we share your outrage about his murder. Abolish ICE. In this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky and Taina sit inside two overlapping kinds of grief: personal loss and collective unraveling. Becky names the heavy, destabilizing grief of watching U.S. power erode on the global stage—and what it means to confront the loss of privilege, safety, and certainty in real time. Taina shares the complicated aftermath of her mother’s death, including the anger, relief, and dissonance that come from being told a story about someone that doesn’t match your lived experience. Together, they explore grief as a political and embodied experience, the difference between healthy and harmful anger, and why being “aware” isn’t enough without guardrails, resourcing, and community. This episode is about naming the mess without rushing to fix it—and learning how to stay human when the world makes it very tempting not to. 🧠 Discussed in This Episode • The grief of losing global privilege—and why it still matters even when privilege is complicated • Why awareness without action (or guardrails) can keep us stuck • Seasonal depression, political despair, and “who gives a shit” energy • Resource mapping as a tool for emotional regulation and capacity • Healthy anger vs. destructive anger—and why movements can’t survive on rage alone • Parenting, power dynamics, and what under-resourcing does to relationships • Complicated grief after the death of an abusive or estranged parent • The dissonance of hearing glowing stories about someone who harmed you • Relief as a valid response to death—and why that doesn… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/messy-liberation-feminist-conversations-about-politics-and-pop-culture-6952884/episodes/the-us-is-falling-apart-collective-grief-privilege-and-surviving-the-trump-regime/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/messy-liberation-feminist-conversations-about-politics-and-pop-culture-6952884/the-us-is-falling-apart-collective-grief-privilege-and-surviving-the-trump-regime.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.