# #4: Session 3 > MBT Emotions and why we have them Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/mbt-en-understanding-mentalization-based-treatment-7791311/4-session-3-mbt-emotions-and-why-we-have-them Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/mbt-en-understanding-mentalization-based-treatment-7791311/4-session-3-mbt-emotions-and-why-we-have-them.md Podcast: [MBT EN – Understanding Mentalization-Based Treatment](https://stenobird.com/podcast/mbt-en-understanding-mentalization-based-treatment-7791311) Published: 2026-03-17T20:26:18+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/japper337/episodes/4-Session-3--MBT-Emotions-and-why-we-have-them-e3gj2p9 Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/10ad8e07c/podcast/play/117065961/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-2-17%2F3ac21685-b195-a389-a7c1-9c35bb4f021a.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mbt-en-understanding-mentalization-based-treatment-7791311/episodes/4-session-3-mbt-emotions-and-why-we-have-them Duration seconds: 1222 ## Resource Welcome back. In the previous session, we explored what happens when mentalizing breaks down. Today, we focus on something at the core of that process: emotions . Because emotions are not the problem β€” they are signals. πŸ“Œ What this session is about Emotions are automatic, physical responses that happen in all humans. When you become aware of them and can name them, they turn into feelings . Within MBT, we work with seven basic emotions : curiosity, fear, anger, desire, love, sadness, and playfulness. Each emotion has a purpose: to protect you, guide you, or connect you with others. πŸ”Ž Real-life examples Your heart starts racing β€” but you don’t know if it’s fear, stress, or excitement. You feel irritated, but underneath there may be sadness or disappointment. You experience physical tension without understanding the emotion behind it. πŸ“š Why it matters Emotions are never β€œwrong.” They give you important information about what you need. Problems arise when: You don’t recognize your emotions You misinterpret them Or your feelings and physical reactions no longer match This can lead to confusion, conflict, or feeling disconnected from yourself. ✨ How MBT works with this In MBT, you learn to slow down and notice what you feel. You practise: Recognizing emotions in your body Putting them into words Understanding what they are trying to tell you The goal is not to control emotions, but to understand them . πŸ’‘ Practice from Session 3 Take time this week to reflect on your emotions. What did you feel? Were you able to name those feelings? Or did you mainly notice physical signals, like tension or restlessness? Write it down and observe patterns without judgment. 🌟 Core message Emotions are not obstacles β€” they are guides. The more you learn to recognize and understand them, the mo… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/mbt-en-understanding-mentalization-based-treatment-7791311/episodes/4-session-3-mbt-emotions-and-why-we-have-them/transcription-requests` β€” Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/mbt-en-understanding-mentalization-based-treatment-7791311/4-session-3-mbt-emotions-and-why-we-have-them.md` β€” Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.