# Feeling Resentful About the Mental Load? Listen to This Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/maximized-minimalist-podcast-997364/feeling-resentful-about-the-mental-load-listen-to-this Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/maximized-minimalist-podcast-997364/feeling-resentful-about-the-mental-load-listen-to-this.md Podcast: [Maximized Minimalist Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/maximized-minimalist-podcast-997364) Published: 2026-09-16T05:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://minimalist-movement.libsyn.com/feeling-resentful-about-the-mental-load-listen-to-this Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/minimalist-movement/372__Feeling_Resentful_About_the_Mental_Load__Listen_to_This.mp3?dest-id=1064381 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/maximized-minimalist-podcast-997364/episodes/feeling-resentful-about-the-mental-load-listen-to-this Duration seconds: 1070 ## Resource The mental load is real. But lately I've been asking myself a question: is all the content online about the mental load - actually helping me - or is it making me *more* resentful? That question got even louder after I recently broke my toe (OUCH!!) and suddenly couldn't do all the things I normally do around our house. Today I chat about what I noticed when my family stepped up, the surprising reframe that's helping change the way I'm looking at home responsibilities (and how I talk to my kids about chores), and why I'm being much more careful about the stories I let myself rehearse about the mental load. If you've been feeling a little too familiar with resentment lately, I hope this one offers a refreshing perspective that I know I certainly needed, too. Reel Inspiration I mentioned: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dc6tu7ZBgvC/?stkn=MXdleXpvcXprMWppNg== ๐ŸŽฏ Take the free Decluttering Style Quiz + get your custom 3-step action plan โ†’ home.katyjoywells.com/quiz ๐Ÿ“ฉ Join the Internet's Most Fun Declutter Newsletter: Ready, Set, Simplify โ†’ home.katyjoywells.com/simplifynewsletter ๐Ÿงก Join Clutter Cure Club: The Only Membership Designed to Keep Your Home Clutter-Free For Good โ†’ home.katyjoywells.com/cluttercureclub ๐Ÿ“š Order My Book, Making Home Your Happy Place โ†’ home.katyjoywells.com/declutterwithouttheoverwhelm ๐Ÿ“ฒ Follow me On Insta โ†’ instagram.com/katyjoywells ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/maximized-minimalist-podcast-997364/episodes/feeling-resentful-about-the-mental-load-listen-to-this/transcription-requests` โ€” Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/maximized-minimalist-podcast-997364/feeling-resentful-about-the-mental-load-listen-to-this.md` โ€” Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.