# What Needs to Die in Your Marriage? Bold Questions for a New Year

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Podcast: [Master Your Marriage](https://stenobird.com/podcast/master-your-marriage-6011000)
Published: 2026-01-08T20:15:00+00:00
Episode link: https://sharla-and-robert-snow.captivate.fm/episode/what-needs-to-die-in-your-marriage-bold-questions-for-a-new-year
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In this episode of "Master Your Marriage," hosts Robert and Sharla Snow challenge the trending notion that January is solely for hibernation and survival mode. While acknowledging the appeal of rest and cozy winter vibes, they argue that growth in your relationship isn't confined to a calendar date—it's a daily choice. Robert and Sharla introduce a fresh framework for setting intentions in your marriage: subtraction, growth, and protection. They adapt three powerful questions to help couples build stronger partnerships: What Has to Die in Your Marriage? Explore limiting beliefs, behaviors, and patterns that are holding you back, like avoiding tough conversations, constant phone distractions, holding grudges, micromanaging, or assuming your partner's needs without asking. The hosts share personal examples and encourage listeners to identify and release these weights. What Has to Grow in Your Marriage? Identify neglected areas (like intimacy or shared adventures) and double down on what's working well (such as weekly check-ins). Robert and Sharla discuss nurturing ambition and direct communication for deeper connection. What Has to Be Protected in Your Marriage? Guard the rhythms, habits, and elements that already strengthen your bond, like trust, quality time, and healthy boundaries. Whether it's January or July, this episode offers actionable insights for intentional relationship growth. Grab your journal, reflect with your partner, and prioritize 1-2 items per question. Share your takeaways with us on social media or in an email! Key Topics Discussed: Trending winter "hibernation" mindset vs. embracing growth anytime The pitfalls of endless addition in goal-setting Personal reflections on limiting beliefs and habits Practical examples of toxic behaviors to eliminate S…

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