# Your Marriage Isn’t Broken — You’re Lying to Yourself

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Podcast: [Married Game Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/married-game-podcast-1223630)
Published: 2026-01-09T09:31:06+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/keith-yackey/episodes/Your-Marriage-Isnt-Broken--Youre-Lying-to-Yourself-e3ddbr5
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## Resource

In this episode of The Married Game Podcast , we introduce a powerful new segment called “Lying to Yourself.” We break down the most common lies men believe in marriage — the ones that sound reasonable, feel justified, and still destroy desire over time. We cover: Why saying “I’m doing everything I can” is usually a lie How avoiding conflict kills attraction faster than fighting Why “giving her space” often means abandoning emotional leadership The hidden difference between effort and behaviors that create desire How choosing comfort over clarity erodes respect and polarity What men must own if they want real connection — not compliance This episode also goes deeper than tactics. We talk about presence , ownership , and what happens when a man stops outsourcing his self-worth — including a powerful reflection on loss, self-acceptance, and unconditional self-leadership. If you’re a man who wants: More desire in your marriage Less walking on eggshells Clear leadership without manipulation Real intimacy instead of negotiated peace …this episode will hit harder than you expect. ⚠️ Warning: If you’re attached to comfort, validation, or being “right,” this episode will challenge you. Follow Keith Yackey: 📸 Instagram: @keithyackey 🎥 YouTube: The Married Game Podcast 🌐 Website: ⁠https://marriedgame.com⁠

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