# #61 - Marriage Phase 2: Disillusionment Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/marriage-is-the-best-7112661/61-marriage-phase-2-disillusionment Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/marriage-is-the-best-7112661/61-marriage-phase-2-disillusionment.md Podcast: [Marriage is the Best](https://stenobird.com/podcast/marriage-is-the-best-7112661) Published: 2025-12-29T10:06:00+00:00 Episode link: https://marriageisthebest.podbean.com/e/61-stage-2-disillusionment/ Audio file: https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/y8ef9w3ufw9akmzy/251229_Stage_2_Disillusionment7zbmp.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/marriage-is-the-best-7112661/episodes/61-marriage-phase-2-disillusionment Duration seconds: 1743 ## Resource Disillusionment: a feeling of disappointment resulting from the discovery that something is not as good as one believed it to be. Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans Brene Brown: Anything she has ever done. The Soul of Shame, Curt Thomson The 7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy, and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever by Rita DeMaria and Sari Harrar Mr. Universe, Jim Gaffigan Atomic Habits, James Clear Trust, Henry Cloud The Love Prescription, Gottman Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast. X account: @marriagebestpod Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615 Gottman TED Talk: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w The Ramsey Show: https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500 Resources: Preparing for Marriage, Rainey: 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman: How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny Hold Me Tight, Johnson Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/marriage-is-the-best-7112661/episodes/61-marriage-phase-2-disillusionment/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/marriage-is-the-best-7112661/61-marriage-phase-2-disillusionment.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.