# Why You're Crushing It at Work But Failing at Home (The Truth About Hard Conversations) #674

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Podcast: [Man That Can with Lachlan Stuart](https://stenobird.com/podcast/man-that-can-with-lachlan-stuart-1127729)
Published: 2026-02-08T20:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/speaking
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Duration seconds: 1227

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Message me your 'Takeaways'. Why can you give tough feedback at work but avoid that one conversation with your partner? Life performance coach Lachlan Stuart shares the story of the money conversation he avoided with his wife Amy for months—and what finally made him say it. Spoiler: the fear was worse than the truth. In this episode: - The pattern: why high-performing men are surgical at work but silent at home - The Delay Distortion: how your brain either romanticizes or catastrophizes conve...

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