# The Real Reason 1 in 3 Americans Are Cutting Off Their Family Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/making-the-argument-with-nick-freitas-698946/the-real-reason-1-in-3-americans-are-cutting-off-their-family Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/making-the-argument-with-nick-freitas-698946/the-real-reason-1-in-3-americans-are-cutting-off-their-family.md Podcast: [Making the Argument with Nick Freitas](https://stenobird.com/podcast/making-the-argument-with-nick-freitas-698946) Published: 2026-08-21T21:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/pfx.vpixl.com/4V6da/arttrk.com/p/BLZM1/verifi.podscribe.com/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/285/pscrb.fm/rss/p/prfx.byspotify.com/e/claritaspod.com/measure/traffic.megaphone.fm/BMDC8551450522.mp3 Audio file: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/pfx.vpixl.com/4V6da/arttrk.com/p/BLZM1/verifi.podscribe.com/rss/p/mgln.ai/e/285/pscrb.fm/rss/p/prfx.byspotify.com/e/claritaspod.com/measure/traffic.megaphone.fm/BMDC8551450522.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/making-the-argument-with-nick-freitas-698946/episodes/the-real-reason-1-in-3-americans-are-cutting-off-their-family Duration seconds: 3777 ## Resource People are more willing to cut off a family member for voting the wrong way than for committing a serious, violent crime. What is actually causing this? There are big things happening at Blaze, and we'd love for you to join us. You can join now at https://Get.BlazeTV.com/Nick and use promo code “NICK” to get $20 off! GET YOUR MERCH HERE: https://shop.nickjfreitas.com/ BECOME A MEMBER OF THE IC: https://NickJFreitas.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nickjfreitas/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NickFreitasVA Twitter: https://twitter.com/NickJFreitas YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Nickjfreitas TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nickjfreitas3.0 00:00 – 38% of adults are estranged from family 04:24 – What used to be enough to cut off family 07:09 – Why siblings cut each other off the most 13:28 – Liberals, Gen Z, and the political violence overlap 16:19 – Why your family gets less grace than strangers 20:22 – Social media, clout, and the empowered victim 22:41 – Therapy culture, and what "trauma-informed" really means 28:56 – Reddit's advice went from "talk to them" to "end it" 33:18 – We were debating, they were diagnosing 36:30 – Why leaving each other alone was never going to work 43:24 – The words that end a conversation before it starts 52:09 – What parents can actually do about it 1:00:40 – The prodigal son, and why the father doesn't chase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/making-the-argument-with-nick-freitas-698946/episodes/the-real-reason-1-in-3-americans-are-cutting-off-their-family/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/making-the-argument-with-nick-freitas-698946/the-real-reason-1-in-3-americans-are-cutting-off-their-family.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.