# 83: What’s Your Trust Archetype? How to Build a High-Trust Relationship Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/make-more-love-6719840/83-what-s-your-trust-archetype-how-to-build-a-high-trust-relationship Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/make-more-love-6719840/83-what-s-your-trust-archetype-how-to-build-a-high-trust-relationship.md Podcast: [Make More Love](https://stenobird.com/podcast/make-more-love-6719840) Published: 2026-07-09T13:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://makemorelove.show Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/079a7c07-7f73-4b71-8717-abf04c13fa80.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/make-more-love-6719840/episodes/83-what-s-your-trust-archetype-how-to-build-a-high-trust-relationship Duration seconds: 1237 ## Resource Ellen continues the conversation about trust by moving from the seven domains of trust into the personal patterns each partner brings to their relationship. She introduces seven relationship trust archetypes that shape how people naturally build trust, where they may create strain, and what they need to become more intentional about in order to build a high-trust profile with their partner. Part 1: Trust Is Personal Trust is not a single quality. It is built through seven domains: safety, security, caring, integrity, fidelity, reliability, and repair. Each partner brings their own expectations, history, strengths, and blind spots into the relationship. Ellen explains the idea of adaptive identity: the way we learn to show up based on our life experience, what feels authentic to us, and what we have learned gets rewarded or protected. Part 2: The Seven Relationship Trust Archetypes Ellen covers the seven archetypes and the gift each one brings into a relationship: The Traditionalist offers stability. The Nice Guy offers harmony. The Visionary offers expansiveness. The Engineer offers clarity. The Artist offers uniqueness. The Lover offers intimate intensity. The Hero offers support. Each gift is real and valuable, but every gift also has a shadow side. Those shadow sides can become the places where trust gets strained. Part 3: Building a High-Trust Profile Ellen brings the archetypes back to the seven trust domains and explains where each archetype tends to have natural trust strengths, and where more intention may be needed. The point is not to label yourself or put yourself in a box. The point is to understand how you naturally enter the relationship, where you already build trust, and where your partner may need something more from you. Building a high-trust profile… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/make-more-love-6719840/episodes/83-what-s-your-trust-archetype-how-to-build-a-high-trust-relationship/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/make-more-love-6719840/83-what-s-your-trust-archetype-how-to-build-a-high-trust-relationship.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.