# 66: "We Never Fight"-The Bright Side… and the Dark Side Too

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Podcast: [Make More Love](https://stenobird.com/podcast/make-more-love-6719840)
Published: 2025-09-11T13:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://makemorelove.show
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Ellen Dorian explores the concept of "never fighting" in relationships, discussing various reasons why couples might claim they don't fight and the potential implications for their relationship health. Part 1: Reasons for "Never Fighting" - Disengagement and avoidance - Temperament and perceptions - Philosophy and healthy skills Part 2: Analyzing "Never Fighting" in Relationships - Looking beneath the surface - Attacking the problem, not each other - Practicing conflict resolution on small issues Part 3: The Importance of Healthy Conflict - Distinguishing between harmful avoidance and genuine compatibility - Building intimacy through constructive disagreement - Developing skills for incremental problem-solving Key Takeaways: - "Never fighting" can indicate various relationship dynamics, both positive and negative - Healthy relationships often involve constructive conflict resolution - Incremental problem-solving can prevent major conflicts Call to Action: Take the Make More Love Relationship Dynamics Quiz for personalized insights into your relationship dynamics. Closing Thoughts: The absence of fighting doesn't necessarily indicate a healthy relationship. It's crucial to understand the underlying reasons and develop healthy conflict resolution skills. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment…

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