# "You are not enough people!" | Maiden Mother Matriarch 200 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/maiden-mother-matriarch-with-louise-perry-6030622/you-are-not-enough-people-maiden-mother-matriarch-200 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/maiden-mother-matriarch-with-louise-perry-6030622/you-are-not-enough-people-maiden-mother-matriarch-200.md Podcast: [Maiden Mother Matriarch with Louise Perry](https://stenobird.com/podcast/maiden-mother-matriarch-with-louise-perry-6030622) Published: 2026-05-31T18:56:53+00:00 Episode link: https://shows.acast.com/maiden-mother-matriarch-with-louise-perry/episodes/you-are-not-enough-people-maiden-mother-matriarch-200 Audio file: https://sphinx.acast.com/p/open/s/692d66fb9b21443f851785bb/e/6a1c847549418f56c4e5584e/media.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/maiden-mother-matriarch-with-louise-perry-6030622/episodes/you-are-not-enough-people-maiden-mother-matriarch-200 Duration seconds: 4488 ## Resource The institution of marriage has changed a lot over the last few centuries. As Eli Finkel explains in ‘The All of Nothing Marriage’ – truly one of my favourite social science books – Americans of the early nineteenth century would look with confusion on our modern attitudes towards what a spouse ought to be. An economic partner, sure. A co-parent, obviously. But a best friend, even a soul mate? Today, Eli and I track these changes across American history, and we ask whether our modern attitudes towards marriage have some significant downsides. It seems that the best marriages are now better than ever. But it also seems that the institution as a whole has become more fragile. Eli is a social psychologist at Northwestern University and also the co-host – along with Paul Eastwick, another MMM guest – of the podcast ‘Love Factually’, which analyses movies through the lens of relationship science. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/maiden-mother-matriarch-with-louise-perry-6030622/episodes/you-are-not-enough-people-maiden-mother-matriarch-200/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/maiden-mother-matriarch-with-louise-perry-6030622/you-are-not-enough-people-maiden-mother-matriarch-200.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.