# LOVERS by Shan Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835.md RSS feed: https://feeds.megaphone.fm/LEME1350073476 Official site: http://loversbyshan.com/ Author: Lemonada Media Episodes: 169 ## Resource LOVERS by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan Boodram’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guests include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away. When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach. Sales and Distribution by Lemonada Media https://lemonadamedia.com/ ## Machine-readable JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/lovers-by-shan-4367835 Markdown: https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835.md ## Episodes - [If Good Women Are Opting Out of Dating… Maybe Ask Why Ft. Melyssa Ford](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/if-good-women-are-opting-out-of-dating-maybe-ask-why-ft-melyssa-ford) — 2026-05-27T07:30:00+00:00 - [Everyone Wants This Kind of Love… Until It Costs Them Something](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/everyone-wants-this-kind-of-love-until-it-costs-them-something) — 2026-05-20T07:30:00+00:00 - [Is It Wrong to Still Want Attention if You’re in a Relationship ft. Lauren Morrison](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/is-it-wrong-to-still-want-attention-if-you-re-in-a-relationship-ft-lauren-morrison) — 2026-05-13T07:30:00+00:00 - [This Changes How You See Avoidantly Attached People ft. Dr. Amir Levine](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/this-changes-how-you-see-avoidantly-attached-people-ft-dr-amir-levine) — 2026-05-06T07:30:00+00:00 - [This Kama Sutra Secret About Hands Changes Everything](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/this-kama-sutra-secret-about-hands-changes-everything) — 2026-04-29T07:30:00+00:00 - [The Year I Decided I’d Never Divorce My Husband](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/the-year-i-decided-i-d-never-divorce-my-husband) — 2026-04-22T07:30:00+00:00 - [I Spent Years Forcing Relationships… Here’s What I Learned ft. Affion Crockett](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/i-spent-years-forcing-relationships-here-s-what-i-learned-ft-affion-crockett) — 2026-04-15T07:30:00+00:00 - [The Secret to Attracting a Husband, Not Just a Boyfriend ft. Kamie Crawford](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/the-secret-to-attracting-a-husband-not-just-a-boyfriend-ft-kamie-crawford) — 2026-04-08T07:30:00+00:00 - [I Thought I Wanted to Be a Trad Wife… I Was Wrong ft. Lisa Bilyeu](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/i-thought-i-wanted-to-be-a-trad-wife-i-was-wrong-ft-lisa-bilyeu) — 2026-04-01T07:30:00+00:00 - [Why “Normal” Sex Doesn’t Work for Many Black and Brown Women Ft. Aida Mariam Davis](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/why-normal-sex-doesn-t-work-for-many-black-and-brown-women-ft-aida-mariam-davis) — 2026-03-25T07:30:00+00:00 - [What Men Actually Think About Before They Propose ft. Mark Manson](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/what-men-actually-think-about-before-they-propose-ft-mark-manson) — 2026-03-18T07:30:00+00:00 - [Are You Nicer to Strangers Than Your Partner ft. DeWanda Wise](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/are-you-nicer-to-strangers-than-your-partner-ft-dewanda-wise) — 2026-03-11T07:30:00+00:00 - [What If You Never Meet the One ft. Melyssa Ford](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/what-if-you-never-meet-the-one-ft-melyssa-ford) — 2026-03-04T08:30:00+00:00 - [Can Intimacy Survive Porn, Drinks and Phone Addictions? ft. Dr Anna Lembke](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/can-intimacy-survive-porn-drinks-and-phone-addictions-ft-dr-anna-lembke) — 2026-02-25T08:30:00+00:00 - [Spinning the Block Doesn’t Work Without This ft. Jerrie Johnson and Dria Brown](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/spinning-the-block-doesn-t-work-without-this-ft-jerrie-johnson-and-dria-brown) — 2026-02-18T08:30:00+00:00 - [Do We Believe Her Now? | Abby De La Rosa Returns to Discuss Her Alternative Relationship](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/do-we-believe-her-now-abby-de-la-rosa-returns-to-discuss-her-alternative-relationship) — 2026-02-11T08:30:00+00:00 - [What Men Risk When They Stay Quiet ft. Kier Gaines](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/what-men-risk-when-they-stay-quiet-ft-kier-gaines) — 2026-02-04T08:30:00+00:00 - [Rachel Lindsay’s Shocking Discovery About Intimacy After Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/rachel-lindsay-s-shocking-discovery-about-intimacy-after-divorce) — 2026-01-28T08:30:00+00:00 - [The Real Reason We Started an Open Relationship](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/the-real-reason-we-started-an-open-relationship) — 2026-01-21T15:50:16+00:00 - [When Conflict Turns Lovers Into Exes ft. Touré](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/when-conflict-turns-lovers-into-exes-ft-tour) — 2025-12-17T05:08:47+00:00 - [Intimacy Started When This Secret Came to Light ft. Jonathan Van Ness](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/intimacy-started-when-this-secret-came-to-light-ft-jonathan-van-ness) — 2025-12-01T05:00:00+00:00 - [Navigating Parenting Differences as Lovers](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/navigating-parenting-differences-as-lovers) — 2025-11-26T05:00:00+00:00 - [Love Has Destroyed Me So Why Do I Keep Trying? ft Sabrina Claudio](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/love-has-destroyed-me-so-why-do-i-keep-trying-ft-sabrina-claudio) — 2025-11-19T05:00:00+00:00 - [Seema Anand on Overcoming Shame with the Kama Sutra’s Secrets](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/seema-anand-on-overcoming-shame-with-the-kama-sutra-s-secrets) — 2025-11-12T05:00:00+00:00 - [Sacred Sex For People Who Don't Believe ft. Tanerélle](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lovers-by-shan-4367835/sacred-sex-for-people-who-don-t-believe-ft-taner-lle) — 2025-11-05T05:26:01+00:00 ## Actions Episode pages expose an explicit `request_transcript` action. A page view does not automatically enqueue transcription.