# How To Stop Being An Irritating Person Series: Playing The Victim Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-the-amazing-clarks-6715044/how-to-stop-being-an-irritating-person-series-playing-the-victim Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-the-amazing-clarks-6715044/how-to-stop-being-an-irritating-person-series-playing-the-victim.md Podcast: [Love, The Amazing Clarks](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-the-amazing-clarks-6715044) Published: 2025-08-26T11:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.theamazingclarks.com Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/c0dbcd40-07cd-4134-a2a2-93a681c59100.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/love-the-amazing-clarks-6715044/episodes/how-to-stop-being-an-irritating-person-series-playing-the-victim Duration seconds: 1477 ## Resource Dear Listeners, This week on  Love, The Amazing Clarks , Anthony and Melanie are back with another no fluff relationship reality check. Fresh off their new gig as grandparents (yes, they’re officially Pop Pop and Mimi now), they dive into one of the most irritating traits in relationships from their E-Book :  playing the victim . From personal stories of childhood chicken battles to deep insights about energy, accountability, and healing, the Clarks break down why the “poor me” act is exhausting and how to ditch it for good. With their signature humor, love, and straight talk, they show you how flipping the script from powerless to powerful can transform not only your relationships but your whole life. Love, The Amazing Clarks ==== Anthony and Melanie Clark are a dynamic duo of certified love and life coaches who have been passionately in love for over 32 years. They bring their personal experience of building and sustaining a happy marriage to their clients, along with their expertise as internationally recognized coaches. They have been coaching individuals and couples as a team for 24 years, helping thousands of people achieve their personal and relationship goals. ​ They have been featured on a range of platforms from TV shows like OWN Network’s Black Love, After Love, Dr. Drew to radio and magazines. They have coached a range of high-profile clients, including United States Congressmen, platinum recording artists, Olympic gold medalists, NBA Hall of Famers, and Fortune 500 company CEOs. Their dynamic and engaging coaching style has garnered them the nickname “The Amazing Clarks” amongst their clients.​  Find out more at TheAmazingClarks.com Music: Pauly B. ======== Do you have a listener letter for the Clarks? Fill out our form or email info@fe… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/love-the-amazing-clarks-6715044/episodes/how-to-stop-being-an-irritating-person-series-playing-the-victim/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-the-amazing-clarks-6715044/how-to-stop-being-an-irritating-person-series-playing-the-victim.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.