# The #1 Question To Ask In Early Dating | Matt Monday

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Podcast: [Love Life With Matthew Hussey](https://stenobird.com/podcast/love-life-with-matthew-hussey-962714)
Published: 2026-04-27T07:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://shows.acast.com/love-life-with-matthew-hussey/episodes/the-1-question-to-ask-in-early-dating-matt-monday
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## Resource

A viewer recently asked me:  Is there a way to spot an avoidant before you fall in love with them?   The truth is, early avoidant behavior can quietly trigger a sense of unworthiness, making us feel like we have to win someone over. Sometimes, what feels like “falling” for someone isn’t about how right they are for us, but how uncertain we’ve started to feel around them.   In this episode, I break down how to recognize avoidant patterns before you get too invested and why it’s not always as simple as it sounds. You’ll learn the key signs to watch for, but more importantly, I’ll share the deeper question you should be asking yourself in early dating. It's a question that puts you back in control and helps you navigate modern dating with clarity and confidence. --- ►► Get Out Of Your Situationship and Get Commitment GetCommitment.com ►► Transform Your Life in 2 Powerful Days. Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat at MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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