# Reverse Engineering Love: The Path to Your Soulmate with Karen McPhail | Episode 130 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/look-for-the-good-with-carrie-rowan-6417075/reverse-engineering-love-the-path-to-your-soulmate-with-karen-mcphail-episode-130 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/look-for-the-good-with-carrie-rowan-6417075/reverse-engineering-love-the-path-to-your-soulmate-with-karen-mcphail-episode-130.md Podcast: [Look for the Good with Carrie Rowan](https://stenobird.com/podcast/look-for-the-good-with-carrie-rowan-6417075) Published: 2026-04-23T12:45:33+00:00 Episode link: https://lookforthegood.podbean.com/e/reverse-engineering-love-the-path-to-your-soulmate-with-karen-mcphail-episode-130/ Audio file: https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/wyf7f9yjzi9pgf8s/CarrieRowan02-02-26_LFTG_Karen_McPhail_Episode_1306e6x5.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/look-for-the-good-with-carrie-rowan-6417075/episodes/reverse-engineering-love-the-path-to-your-soulmate-with-karen-mcphail-episode-130 Duration seconds: 3544 ## Resource Reverse Engineering Love: The Path to Your Soulmate with Karen McPhail Reverse-Engineering Love: The Path to Your Soulmate with Karen McPhail What if the reason you haven’t found your soulmate yet has nothing to do with who you’re dating—and everything to do with the story you’re telling? Have you ever found yourself wondering, Why can’t I attract the right person? Where is my soulmate? If so, this episode is for you. That sneaky little love story we all carry around can quietly sabotage our relationships without us even realizing it. This week on Look for the Good, I’m joined by bestselling author and soulmate manifestation coach Karen McPhail for a refreshingly honest conversation about what really gets in the way of true love—and how to finally shift it. This is not your sister’s well-meaning advice or another surface-level love conversation. Karen shares the real deal, including her own powerful story of finding love in Paris after heartbreak—as a single mom working as a schoolteacher. Her journey alone will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about attracting a soulmate. In this episode, Karen reveals why the truth you need to hear is often invisible to the naked eye, and why looking outside yourself may be the very thing keeping love at arm’s length. Lean in for her simple yet profound “coffee cup process,” a daily practice you can do every morning to set the energetic tone for true love. You’ll also want to hear her fascinating approach to reverse-engineering your love story to uncover exactly where you may be stuck. Just in time for Valentine’s Day, this conversation invites you to stop chasing love and start understanding the story beneath it—so you can finally aim that arrow in the right direction. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why subcons… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/look-for-the-good-with-carrie-rowan-6417075/episodes/reverse-engineering-love-the-path-to-your-soulmate-with-karen-mcphail-episode-130/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/look-for-the-good-with-carrie-rowan-6417075/reverse-engineering-love-the-path-to-your-soulmate-with-karen-mcphail-episode-130.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.