# Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists (Even After Healing Work)

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Podcast: [Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lisa-a-romano-breakdown-to-breakthroughs-253934)
Published: 2026-08-17T23:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp
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Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists (Even After Healing Work) A Live Workshop Episode with Lisa A. Romano, Breakthrough Life Coach Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting the same type of toxic person, even after therapy, self-help books, and years of healing work? Do you find yourself repeating painful relationship patterns while consciously knowing better? If so, you are not crazy. And you are not failing. In this powerful live workshop episode, Lisa A. Romano shares her personal story of why she continued attracting narcissistic and emotionally unavailable people, even after becoming aware of her codependency. Through deep psychological insight, nervous system awareness, and subconscious healing principles, Lisa explains why awareness alone is not enough when childhood trauma patterns are still operating beneath consciousness. This is not about blame. It is about understanding what is truly running the pattern. In This Episode You'll Discover: 🔹 Why conscious awareness alone does not automatically change relationship patterns 🔹 How childhood trauma shapes subconscious beliefs about love, safety, and self-worth 🔹 The connection between codependency and attracting narcissistic partners 🔹 Why the subconscious mind overrides conscious intentions 🔹 How emotional memory and nervous system conditioning shape attraction 🔹 Why people often repeat childhood dynamics in adult relationships 🔹 The role of emotional frequency, identity, and subconscious programming 🔹 How overexplaining, people-pleasing, and seeking approval keep toxic cycles alive 🔹 Why healing requires metacognition and observing your patterns objectively 🔹 How emotional regulation and subconscious rewiring help break trauma repetition cycles A Truth That Changes Everything: You are not attracting narciss…

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