# What Daughters Never Tell Their Dads | With My Daughter Ava Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795/what-daughters-never-tell-their-dads-with-my-daughter-ava Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795/what-daughters-never-tell-their-dads-with-my-daughter-ava.md Podcast: [Lights On with Carl Lentz](https://stenobird.com/podcast/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795) Published: 2025-12-24T06:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://s.gum.fm/s-6750d39b27f9d571b5016e8c/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/rss.art19.com/episodes/0f019ee4-7a3f-4eaf-bef8-51ae3fcd3b36.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Audio file: https://s.gum.fm/s-6750d39b27f9d571b5016e8c/claritaspod.com/measure/pscrb.fm/rss/p/rss.art19.com/episodes/0f019ee4-7a3f-4eaf-bef8-51ae3fcd3b36.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795/episodes/what-daughters-never-tell-their-dads-with-my-daughter-ava Duration seconds: 3444 ## Resource Want to submit questions? Email us at hello@carlandlaura.com In this raw episode of Lights On, Carl Lentz sits down with his 21-year-old daughter Ava for the conversation most dads are too afraid to have. What does my daughter actually need from me? The answer will challenge everything you think you know about strength, protection, and what it actually takes to lead your daughter well. Drawing from their own journey of rebuilding after public failure, Carl and Ava expose an uncomfortable truth. Your daughter's inner world is far deeper than you realize. And two things can be true at once. A dad can be trying his best AND his daughter can be starving for real connection. Ava shares what she needed most as a little girl but never said, including the moments Carl's "strength" actually created fear instead of safety. Carl delivers the perspective most dads never hear. What it is actually like to let your daughter see you broken, and why that vulnerability became the foundation of their relationship today. From the power of the words that follow "you are" to why your best parenting will feel like friction in the moment, to the question every dad should ask his daughter, this episode delivers practical truths for fathers who want to stop performing and start connecting. This episode will challenge any dad who believes he needs to have it all figured out. Follow Carl at https://www.instagram.com/carllentz/  Follow Ava at https://www.instagram.com/avaangellentz/ Supported by Plana https://plana.org/ Supported by God Behind Bars https://godbehindbars.com CHAPTERS  00:00 The Conversation Most Dads Avoid 02:40 This Is Not Pressure It Is Presence  05:18 What Ava Needed Most As A Little Girl  10:07 Why Vulnerability Made Them Closer  14:37 God Behind Bars P… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795/episodes/what-daughters-never-tell-their-dads-with-my-daughter-ava/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/lights-on-with-carl-lentz-6927795/what-daughters-never-tell-their-dads-with-my-daughter-ava.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.