# 233. What Men's Grief Really Looks Like: Roger Nairn on Father Loss, Guilt, and Letting Go of the Mask Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/life-with-grief-podcast-grief-support-podcast-7119643/233-what-men-s-grief-really-looks-like-roger-nairn-on-father-loss-guilt-and-letting-go-of-the-mask Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/life-with-grief-podcast-grief-support-podcast-7119643/233-what-men-s-grief-really-looks-like-roger-nairn-on-father-loss-guilt-and-letting-go-of-the-mask.md Podcast: [Life With Grief Podcast | Grief Support Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/life-with-grief-podcast-grief-support-podcast-7119643) Published: 2026-07-30T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://pdcn.co/e/www.buzzsprout.com/2429466/episodes/19568202-233-what-men-s-grief-really-looks-like-roger-nairn-on-father-loss-guilt-and-letting-go-of-the-mask.mp3 Audio file: https://pdcn.co/e/www.buzzsprout.com/2429466/episodes/19568202-233-what-men-s-grief-really-looks-like-roger-nairn-on-father-loss-guilt-and-letting-go-of-the-mask.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/life-with-grief-podcast-grief-support-podcast-7119643/episodes/233-what-men-s-grief-really-looks-like-roger-nairn-on-father-loss-guilt-and-letting-go-of-the-mask Duration seconds: 3625 ## Resource Drop me a message or voice note! Losing a parent changes you, but losing a parent as a man when you've been taught your whole life to keep it together? That's a different kind of grief. In this episode, I sit down with Roger Nairn, co-host of the Dead Dads Podcast, to talk about his father's death from cancer, his choice to pursue Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID) in Canada, and what it's really like to grieve as a son when you weren't given the tools to feel your feelings. Roger opens up a... ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/life-with-grief-podcast-grief-support-podcast-7119643/episodes/233-what-men-s-grief-really-looks-like-roger-nairn-on-father-loss-guilt-and-letting-go-of-the-mask/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/life-with-grief-podcast-grief-support-podcast-7119643/233-what-men-s-grief-really-looks-like-roger-nairn-on-father-loss-guilt-and-letting-go-of-the-mask.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.