# EP 669: You're Not Lazy, You're Dysregulated: The Truth About Habits & Healing (High Self-Worth Summer Pt. 4) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/ep-669-you-re-not-lazy-you-re-dysregulated-the-truth-about-habits-healing-high-self-worth-summer-pt-4 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/ep-669-you-re-not-lazy-you-re-dysregulated-the-truth-about-habits-healing-high-self-worth-summer-pt-4.md Podcast: [Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice](https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018) Published: 2026-07-20T11:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.drmorgancoaching.com Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/0ab2fbca-7361-4b15-af6d-a46a2acb3b61.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/episodes/ep-669-you-re-not-lazy-you-re-dysregulated-the-truth-about-habits-healing-high-self-worth-summer-pt-4 Duration seconds: 2465 ## Resource Girl, if you've ever beaten yourself up for "failing" at a habit, the journaling you couldn't stick with, the boundary you keep caving on, the morning routine that lasted exactly three days, this episode is for you. In part of our High Self-Worth Summer series, Dr. Morgan breaks down why habits don't fail because of willpower or discipline. They fail because your nervous system is still running old survival programming from relational trauma, and no amount of "just try harder" can override that. Dr. Morgan gets vulnerable about her own journey rebuilding her relationship to sleep, food, money, movement, and work, and why the internal work always has to come before the behavior change. Inside the Episode: Why habits aren't a willpower problem - they're a wiring problem, and what that actually means for your body and brain The five identity shifts that changed Dr. Morgan's life (sleep, food, finances, movement, and work), and the old beliefs she had to release first Why belief work has to come before habit change, not alongside it, if you want the change to actually stick Ready to go deeper? 🌱 Identity Reset Mini-Course: Ready to build habits that actually stick? Grab Dr. Morgan's favorite training for shifting your identity from the inside out. πŸ‘‰πŸΌ Get Your Access Today! πŸ’« VIP 1:1 Coaching: Limited spots available, including the new option to work with Dr. Morgan in person in Bozeman, Montana. πŸ‘‰πŸΌ Click Here to Apply πŸ“² Follow along: @drmorgancoaching on Instagram πŸ”— Additional Episode Links: Grab your Instant Access to My Private Podcast: Secure.Soft.Magnetic Private Podcast Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz β†’ https://drmorgancoaching.com/quiz Grab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/episodes/ep-669-you-re-not-lazy-you-re-dysregulated-the-truth-about-habits-healing-high-self-worth-summer-pt-4/transcription-requests` β€” Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/ep-669-you-re-not-lazy-you-re-dysregulated-the-truth-about-habits-healing-high-self-worth-summer-pt-4.md` β€” Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.