# EP 641: Why Avoidant Attachment Sabotages Every Stage of Your Relationship (Even When You Don't Want It To) Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/ep-641-why-avoidant-attachment-sabotages-every-stage-of-your-relationship-even-when-you-don-t-want-it-to Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/ep-641-why-avoidant-attachment-sabotages-every-stage-of-your-relationship-even-when-you-don-t-want-it-to.md Podcast: [Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice](https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018) Published: 2026-04-08T11:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.drmorgancoaching.com Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/78b7dbab-d553-4719-81be-63e9be07c3f5.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/episodes/ep-641-why-avoidant-attachment-sabotages-every-stage-of-your-relationship-even-when-you-don-t-want-it-to Duration seconds: 2790 ## Resource If you've ever watched a good relationship fall apart and couldn't explain why, or you've been on the receiving end of someone who kept one foot out the door, this episode is going to give you so many aha moments. We're in Part 2 of our four-part series on attachment styles and relationship development, and today we're diving deep into avoidant attachment. I'm breaking down what's actually happening in the nervous system, the brain, and the body at every single stage of relationship development, from early dating all the way through long-term partnership, and why avoidantly attached people keep sabotaging love even when they genuinely want it. Inside the Episode: The core wound behind avoidant attachment How avoidant attachment derails connection at every stage The anxious-avoidant trap and why the chemistry is so electric Ready to stop the cycle and build something that actually feels safe? I have a limited number of Private 1:1 Coaching spots open. If you're done running the same patterns and you're ready to do the real work, apply here: www.drmorgancoaching.co/esl-breakthrough πŸ”— Additional Episode Links: Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz β†’ https://drmorgancoaching.com/quiz Follow me on IG β†’ @drmorgancoaching Grab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/episodes/ep-641-why-avoidant-attachment-sabotages-every-stage-of-your-relationship-even-when-you-don-t-want-it-to/transcription-requests` β€” Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/let-s-get-vulnerable-relationship-and-dating-advice-479018/ep-641-why-avoidant-attachment-sabotages-every-stage-of-your-relationship-even-when-you-don-t-want-it-to.md` β€” Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.