# The Gap Between Who They See & Who You Are | For Mannerless Women Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/legally-clueless-82178/the-gap-between-who-they-see-who-you-are-for-mannerless-women Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/legally-clueless-82178/the-gap-between-who-they-see-who-you-are-for-mannerless-women.md Podcast: [Legally Clueless](https://stenobird.com/podcast/legally-clueless-82178) Published: 2026-06-25T10:00:49+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-gap-between-who-they-see-who-you-are-for-mannerless-women--72686021 Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/72686021/precious_final_episode.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/legally-clueless-82178/episodes/the-gap-between-who-they-see-who-you-are-for-mannerless-women Duration seconds: 4713 ## Resource What happens when the woman the world celebrates isn't the same woman you experience when you're alone? In this episode of For Mannerless Women, Adelle sits down with DJ, broadcaster, creative entrepreneur, and healer Precious Nkadimeng (Spoken Priestess) for a powerful conversation about self-trust, spirituality, identity, and the journey back to yourself. Together, they explore the tension between achievement and authenticity, the cost of self-doubt, ancestral guidance, spiritual awakening, and why choosing yourself is one of the most radical things a woman can do. In This Episode The gap between who the world sees and who you really are Building an identity beyond your work Self-doubt, confidence, and learning to trust yourself Depression, healing, and confronting what's been hidden away Spirituality beyond religion Ancestors, dreams, and intuition Precious' journey through traditional spiritual initiation Why women need to stop asking for permission The power of making choices that honour yourself What it means to live authentically Connect With Precious Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spokenpriestess TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/ @spokenpriestess_ Resources From Precious "I'd say the book: 5AM Club has really inspired me a lot this past year. I'm currently reading the Body Keeps A Score and it's also enlightening, it's a book about how trauma is stored in our bodies" Share Your Story Have a story you'd like to share on Legally Clueless? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/JMrQD55jcrazKFKX7 Follow Legally Clueless Africa Newsletter: https://www.legallycluelessafrica.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LegallyCluelessAfrica Enjoyed This Episode? Sh… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/legally-clueless-82178/episodes/the-gap-between-who-they-see-who-you-are-for-mannerless-women/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/legally-clueless-82178/the-gap-between-who-they-see-who-you-are-for-mannerless-women.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.